KEEP YOUR DISTANCE FROM NEGATIVE PEOPLE
You may know what kind of people I’m referring to or even several names might come to mind, but if not, have you ever felt exhausted, discouraged, or sad for no reason while being with someone? And the strange thing is that when you get home, you feel a great relief?
It’s clear that they are the type who make uncomfortable little criticisms that usually stem from envy, low self-esteem, intolerance, or resentment (negative feelings).
The problem is that these behaviors repeat. Somehow, negativity is contagious. Staying away from such people is not easy, especially when they are part of your social environment. In the second case, you cannot take a physical distance; the answer is to create emotional distance.
- Are you a negative person?
To find out, you first need to recognize if you have any of the characteristics described above, and this starts by answering the following questions:
1) Do you laugh at people rather than with people?
2) Are you condescending towards others?
3) Do you enjoy ignoring others?
4) Do you disdain others with some intensity?
5) Do you change your opinion just to disagree?
6) Do you shut down in front of people with different ideas than yours?
7) Do you always try to convince others when you speak?
8) Are you bothered by the successes of others?
9) Do you talk about yourself very often?
10) Do you interrupt others when you don’t like what they say?
11) Do you complain for a large part of the day?
12) Do you often insult others?
13) Are you passive-aggressive all day?
14) Do you make others feel guilty?
15) Do you always care about having the last word?
If you answered yes to two or more, you are probably part of the problem, so you need to make changes. And the first is TO STAY AWAY FROM OTHER NEGATIVE PEOPLE, in order to stop feeding that circle.
I hope this helps you, and see you tomorrow with the next part.
#bullish $ADA
You may know what kind of people I’m referring to or even several names might come to mind, but if not, have you ever felt exhausted, discouraged, or sad for no reason while being with someone? And the strange thing is that when you get home, you feel a great relief?
It’s clear that they are the type who make uncomfortable little criticisms that usually stem from envy, low self-esteem, intolerance, or resentment (negative feelings).
The problem is that these behaviors repeat. Somehow, negativity is contagious. Staying away from such people is not easy, especially when they are part of your social environment. In the second case, you cannot take a physical distance; the answer is to create emotional distance.
- Are you a negative person?
To find out, you first need to recognize if you have any of the characteristics described above, and this starts by answering the following questions:
1) Do you laugh at people rather than with people?
2) Are you condescending towards others?
3) Do you enjoy ignoring others?
4) Do you disdain others with some intensity?
5) Do you change your opinion just to disagree?
6) Do you shut down in front of people with different ideas than yours?
7) Do you always try to convince others when you speak?
8) Are you bothered by the successes of others?
9) Do you talk about yourself very often?
10) Do you interrupt others when you don’t like what they say?
11) Do you complain for a large part of the day?
12) Do you often insult others?
13) Are you passive-aggressive all day?
14) Do you make others feel guilty?
15) Do you always care about having the last word?
If you answered yes to two or more, you are probably part of the problem, so you need to make changes. And the first is TO STAY AWAY FROM OTHER NEGATIVE PEOPLE, in order to stop feeding that circle.
I hope this helps you, and see you tomorrow with the next part.
#bullish $ADA