You know what your biggest flaw is? A lack of self-love. All those cracks in your soul, all those chips, could be filled with that self-love. Otherwise, there's a vacuum there. And in that vacuum grows everything you consider your flaws. Fears, dependencies, laziness, or even hatred. At birth, you were given one person. To love and care for. But instead, you've spent your whole life searching for something or someone external to fill you with love. But no one but you can do that. So what to do? To love something, you have to accept it. And for that, you need to honestly look at it first. So the first step: total, uncompromising honesty with yourself. That's why meditation. That's why therapy. When you honestly look at it, you'll be able to accept it. When you accept it, you'll be able to love.