In college, ninety percent of couples are “flesh-and-pleasure” couples.

They never think about what they’ll do in the future.

They only care that someone will be there with them today—to go out to eat, go shopping, and play games.

They satisfy each other’s desires.

They chase thrills and sensations.

The moment they graduate and start job hunting or run into a disagreement,

they immediately break up in a sudden, cliff-like way.

It’s as if they’ve never really met that person at all.