Those who make steady trades, why are they perceptive and thoughtful? It's not that they are inherently better, nor that they were smarter from the beginning, but rather that they have truly learned from their falls in the market and losses, gaining experience little by little.
If they hadn't experienced those losses or taken those detours, they would have been just like you now: anxious and confused, unable to grasp the main point.
It is precisely because they have personally endured those pitfalls that they truly understand —
understanding what anxiety is, what fear is, what greed is, and what it means to rely on luck,
they also understand why in the same market, some people slowly emerge while others are stuck in circles.
This is something that no one can avoid.
What really sets people apart is not how many times you have lost, but what you do after losing.
Some people, after losing money, will sit down and think carefully:
What step did I take wrong? Why was it wrong? How can I avoid making the same mistake next time?
They are not in a hurry to prove "I’m actually not that bad," nor are they rushing to vent their emotions everywhere, but quietly adjusting their thoughts and actions to be more reliable next time.
Over time, these people will naturally stabilize and become clearer.
Then there are others who, after losing, only do one thing — venting.
Cursing the market as unfair, blaming others for their good luck, cursing the heavens for being blind,
it's just that they refuse to look at where their own problems lie.
They spend all day indulging in posting on social media, browsing forums, and complaining in groups, busy as can be, yet nothing changes, just to avoid the pain of truly thinking things through.
And the result?
They are not without losses,
but they are adamant about not learning anything from their losses.
Years go by, and they still remain the same, stuck in the same pit.
The market never feels sorry for anyone,
but it rewards those who dare to confront their problems and make changes.
How clearly you can see and how far you can think now,
is actually the sum of whether you chose to think carefully and make changes after every loss in the past.
Whether you can truly climb out,
never depends on how many times you have fallen,
it only depends on whether you can stand more steadily and see more clearly after each fall.