In order to maintain harmony in the family this year, please be sure to play the role of a "failure" when returning home for the New Year.
When you tell your relatives that your monthly salary is 3000, they look at you with kind expressions.
When you tell them that your monthly salary is 30000, their smiles instantly freeze.
This is the darkest "Happiness Relative Theory" in the circle of relatives: their concern is essentially based on the premise that "you are not as good as me".
This sense of superiority is one of the few sources of dopamine in their mediocre lives.
Once you break the balance
You buy luxury cars, become an executive, and your income skyrockets
Their sense of superiority collapses.
Concern will also quickly turn sour, turning into various criticisms: "What's the use of earning so much? Why aren't you married!"
"The pressure in big cities is so high, your health will eventually collapse!"
"No amount of money is useful, health is the most important..."
Do you understand? Only if you live a miserable enough life will their concern be "genuine".
When you tell your relatives that your monthly salary is 3000, they look at you with kind expressions.
When you tell them that your monthly salary is 30000, their smiles instantly freeze.
This is the darkest "Happiness Relative Theory" in the circle of relatives: their concern is essentially based on the premise that "you are not as good as me".
This sense of superiority is one of the few sources of dopamine in their mediocre lives.
Once you break the balance
You buy luxury cars, become an executive, and your income skyrockets
Their sense of superiority collapses.
Concern will also quickly turn sour, turning into various criticisms: "What's the use of earning so much? Why aren't you married!"
"The pressure in big cities is so high, your health will eventually collapse!"
"No amount of money is useful, health is the most important..."
Do you understand? Only if you live a miserable enough life will their concern be "genuine".