Things learned after chasing many girls:
1. If a woman agrees to travel alone with you, it basically means that she is okay with sharing a room at night. At this point, it’s best not to act overly virtuous. If nothing happens between the two people who traveled together, they will likely lose contact afterwards.
2. When a woman is willing to drink with you, it means she has no secrets left in her heart. At this point, you should guide her to express her feelings and let out all her grievances. When the timing feels right, give her a hug; this is an irresistible warmth and the best comfort, which is better than lecturing.
3. A man can be without a house or a car, but he cannot lack style or a good hairstyle, otherwise it would be embarrassing to go out together.
4. Do not deliberately showcase your strengths or probe into your glorious past. Showing off is the beginning of wanting to marry; even if you are capable, adding an element of boasting will instinctively turn women off because women dislike men who show off.
5. If you have feelings for someone, pay more attention to their gaze. Even if they notice you looking at them, do not avoid it; they might be expecting you to convey some message. Eye contact is no different from a spiritual kiss.
6. There’s no need to learn so-called high emotional intelligence chatting skills; just chat normally. Some flashy things can make you seem greasy. The important thing is to find a way to make her interested in you. If she is interested in you, she can talk with you about international affairs.
7. Love is a very rare ability; do not expect every girl to possess it.
8. Women are like cats; the tighter you hold them, the further they will escape. Conversely, the more you push them away, the closer they will come.
9. The woman you are pursuing probably does not have a good impression of you. It’s likely that you won’t be able to catch her, and even if you do, it might lead to frustration.
10. If a girl is hot and cold with you, seeming to have some interest but also seeming indifferent, do not ponder or seek reasons. The right approach is to quickly end the process.
11. The more beautiful a girl is, the fewer people pursue her, because they enjoy being single or simply have no one pursuing them.
