Do not get involved in the causal relationships of your relatives, do not worry too much about your children, and do not worry too much about your parents. Each person eats their own meal, and everyone in this world comes with their own script. Children have walls they must crash into, and parents have their own sufferings in old age that they must endure. If you want to be the one with the scissors, helping children cut through thorns, and trying to help parents cut through stubbornness, thinking this is deep affection, it is actually called losing balance. In the script of the child, you are just a guide, not a director; in the script of the parents, you are just a companion, not a judge. Worrying and being anxious for children leads you to stray from the right path and lose sleep all night, but you forget that the detours they need to take are unavoidable.
The butterfly breaking out of the cocoon is painful; if you kindly help it untangle, it will never be able to fly.
Those setbacks are the gateways that heaven leaves for them to gain enlightenment. If you shield them from the wind and rain, you also block the sunlight they need to grow; without experiencing storms, how can they develop the ability to steer?
Looking at parents, their habits and thoughts formed over decades are their paths. If you insist on correcting their past with present reasoning, that is not called filial piety; that is called arrogance. Attempting to change the fate of an adult is often the beginning of tragedy. What is true compassion? It is allowing—allowing flowers to bloom, allowing trees to grow, allowing others to become themselves, and also allowing oneself to be of no help.
The best relationships are those that maintain boundaries. You watch from the shore; if they seek help, you lend a hand; if they insist on crossing the river, you bless them. Do not carry their causal relationships on your own shoulders; take care of your own heart, and reflect—it's really not worth it! #X平台将可交易加密资产 $BTC