I indeed have a misunderstanding with Lao Zheng, but the friendship of over a decade has never been fake. Back then, I was willing to believe in his character, and that hasn’t changed to this day. Lao Zheng has always been righteous, generous, and transparent over the years. We have shared meals, traveled together, played LOL, and went to Shenzhen to see the sights; these days have truly existed.
During the initial disputes and conflicts, he and Qingzi said some heavy words to me, which made me very angry at the time. However, those were just words said in the heat of the moment, and I don’t want to add fuel to the fire or dwell on it further.
This matter has dragged on with disputes for almost half a year. Our group of old friends has always been like this, with small frictions along the way, but we have accompanied each other to this day.
What I said before was just a simple emotional outburst, a casual complaint; I never intended to escalate the situation or get involved in any disputes.
After serious contemplation, I cannot completely deny someone I have interacted with for over a decade just because of one misunderstanding, someone who has shared many meals with me and also taken flights with me to faraway places. My relationship with Lao Zheng is not that complicated, and I would appreciate it if others refrain from getting involved or commenting.
To clarify: the other party did not harass or bombard me with phone calls. The related costs were voluntarily transferred by me, and all of it has already been refunded through the original channel.
We are still childhood friends and still good friends. @老郑睡不醒