What is the highest realm of a man?

Stay away from married women and focus on making money.

It's not that you can't do it,
it's that this thing is too taxing on people.

Married women, ambiguity, emotional value,
are essentially all time black holes:
You have to reply to messages, soothe emotions,
maintain relationships, and cover risks.
After a whole process,
you haven't earned a penny more,
your energy has been drained first.

Take a good look at the people around you:
The men who are struggling the most,
often have the most romantic prospects;
The ones who truly climb fast,
their phones are always on silent.

There’s a harsh reality:
When you earn 10,000 to 20,000 a month,
a relationship can directly drag you back to square one;
When your cash flow is unstable,
every relationship is a liability.

Looking at those who have risen:
It's not that they lack desire,
it's that they know how to calculate.

They take the two hours after work,
to do projects, meet clients, analyze data, and work on side businesses;
instead of chatting until dawn,
and showing up to work the next day with dark circles under their eyes.

Do you think they are "honest" or "boring"?
Once they add a zero to their bank account,
the world will actively return all the excitement to them.

Here's an even more brutal example:
Many men don't lose because of their abilities,
they lose because they are led by emotions during critical rising periods.
When it's time to lay a solid foundation,
they divide their energy among people and things that don't generate compound interest.

The truly ruthless ones,
in the 10 years from 25 to 35,
only do one thing:
to turn themselves into assets.

Once you have chips,
relationships are a bonus;
before you have chips,
relationships are just distractions.

So stop making excuses for yourself:
You are not lacking opportunities,
you are just too easily distracted.

A man's true freedom
is not having many women,
it's being able to earn steadily without relying on anyone.

This is the
highest realm of a man.