When a woman senses that a man lacks awareness of her on a body-based, energetic level, she (many times) will feel dropped, unseen, or subtly unsafe … not because of what is happening on the surface, but because her *nervous system* no longer feels met.
There is a profound longing in the feminine to be felt.
Not watched. Not analysed. But felt.
Everything happens at an energetic level first.
Before words. Before actions. Before understanding.
Energy is sensed. Presence is felt.
Masculine awareness (true awareness) is a gift to the feminine and to the world.
When a woman feels that a man has awareness of her, her nervous system relaxes. Her body softens. Her heart opens. She no longer needs to be “on edge.” She can relax further into herself knowing that she is held (and of which moves her further into her body and pleasure and she releases the grips of control)
And yet, masculine awareness cannot be evoked when a woman is closed.
When her body is armoured, her heart guarded, and protective shields are up, there is nothing for the masculine to feel into. There is nothing for him to penetrate.
He meets walls and armour instead of presence… and the very attunement she yearns for becomes inaccessible.
This is also why it is not a man’s role to push or force through her defences. A man cannot and should not try to break through walls that were built for protection.
The deeper work belongs to the feminine.
It is a woman’s inner work to soften. To return to safety within her own body. To unwind the armour that once kept her safe, but now keeps her unseen.
As she softens, she becomes available to be felt and therefore available to be met.
