If you want good people to be rewarded, you should not help others at all costs, but let go of the complex of helping others and respect the fate of others. You feel that your friend has three children, the family is in financial difficulty, and his nephew is about to drop out of school. You sympathize with him and give him money every year. After five consecutive years, if you don't give him money in the sixth year, he will not understand why you don't continue to give him money. He will only think that you are so rich, why are you still so stingy. This is human nature and cannot be challenged.
So you should restrain yourself from correcting other people's desires and don't intervene in other people's cause and effect at will.
The core of the elderly who can live to more than 90 years old in the village is not to meddle in other people's affairs. Supporting rotten mud, carving rotten wood, turning over salted fish, and scalding dead pigs are all against the laws of nature. Whoever you sympathize with, your subconscious will automatically bear the fate of that person.
The wise man cherishes his words, the fool points to the mountains and rivers. If you don't have the means of diamond, don't act with the heart of a bodhisattva.