Top sincerity

What is the highest sincerity in liking someone? It is not about being open-hearted, not about spending everything, and certainly not about kneeling on the ground saying 'I can't live without you.' This kind of sincerity is too cheap, so cheap that the other party dares not accept it, feeling that it is too hot to handle and a burden. Today, I will strip away those superficial illusions and let you see what true sincerity looks like. Don't let your genuine heart become worthless because of a foolish expression.
1. The highest sincerity is the certainty of 'not rushing for results.' Most people's so-called liking is essentially a form of anxiety. I like you, so I must immediately know that you like me too; I must confirm our relationship right away; I must bind you to my side as quickly as possible. This is not sincerity; it is hunger, an emotional 'poor appetite.' What is the highest sincerity? It is that I clearly let you feel my liking, but at the same time, I generously and without any coercion return the choice to you. This calmness, this responsibility for one's own vision and efforts, yet not demanding immediate returns, is the true powerful sincerity.