Just received a private message from a fan, and I feel quite uncomfortable.
He said: "They say the first sword to land on the shore should first cut down the one in their heart. I didn't expect to be cut down by the one in my heart today."
He has been together with his partner since he had nothing. At that time, he was a security guard, and his partner earned over thirty thousand a month, yet didn’t mind him and accompanied him all the way.
Later, he became a full-time cryptocurrency trader, slowly achieving results, but while his material conditions improved, the relationship fell apart.
Conflicts are all accumulated from small matters. He said the last big fight was because he changed his phone and accidentally turned off the location.
His partner thinks he is always hiding things, but he is just used to the kind of self-protection that traders have, which is to not leave traces.
"Focusing on one field will make you lose another piece of the world." His words left me silent.
In the past, when money was scarce, but companionship was abundant, the two were actually closer.
Now he can buy things for his partner that he once dared not imagine, but they have lost that initial simple joy of being “together.”
He said, those who have walked through hardships together, once you succeed, you are more reluctant to let go.
"It seems she has completed a mission, seeing me getting better, she wants to leave. But I don’t want to really let go just because I have gotten better."
At the end of the conversation, he also bitterly smiled and admitted: This industry may really not be suitable for dating.
Market fluctuations affect emotions; when losing, one is easily agitated and inevitably becomes indifferent to their partner; when profiting, it is easy to become self-centered and ignore the feelings of those around.
Perhaps we all need to think: On the road of struggle, have we taken the people we should cherish the most for granted?
If you are also feeling confused about the balance between trading and life, career and emotions, or if you have similar stories to share,
Feel free to reach out to Sister Bing anytime for a chat, Sister Bing will help you reach the shore.
