She is not the one being abandoned.
She is sending herself away step by step.
The day the relationship truly collapses, there are no arguments, only one message.
"What are you doing?"
He didn’t reply, it’s not that he is busy, it’s that he is not in a hurry.
She stared at the screen, her heartbeat faster than the K-line, so she added:
"I miss you so much."
This is not a declaration of love, this is the first shot of panic.
There is a cruel resonance effect in the crypto world.
When the market falls, people start to panic;
When people panic, the relationship starts to average down.
She was watching her account in losses while staring at a blank chat box.
So the messages started to pile up, like leveraging.
"Can you please reason with me?"
"Why don’t you reply to my messages?"
"Am I really annoying?"
At this point, she was no longer waiting for him,
is waiting for evidence that you haven't been abandoned.
He finally replied.
"I was just busy."
Four words, no explanation, no emotions, no comfort.
She knew in her heart that everything was already wrong.
But she still chose to continue.
Because in the crypto world and in love,
What people fear most is not losing, but admitting defeat.
She started to cover her humility with maturity.
"You are really being so perfunctory."
"It’s fine, you can be busy first."
"Get some rest early."
It looks decent, but in reality, it’s slowly giving up dignity.
Just like knowing that the trend is bad, but telling yourself:
Wait a moment, what if it rebounds?
The real dead zone is behind.
She started asking about identity.
"Who is she?"
"Do you really like me?"
"You weren’t like this before."
She was scrolling through chat records, promises, and screenshots,
It’s like flipping through white papers in a bear market, trying to prove: I didn’t misjudge the person back then.
When the last message was sent, her hands were trembling:
"What is our relationship now?"
This relationship has actually been settled long ago.
Only she is still continuously averaging down.
The crypto world teaches you stop-losses, position management, and risk control,
But no one tells you one thing:
People who keep averaging down in a relationship,
The next situation will only be worse than liquidation.
All those 15 sentences essentially mean one thing:
"Can you prove that I am still worth wanting?"
When you start speaking like this, you are no longer in love,
You are seeking something that is leaving to turn back.
Remember a harsh saying: any relationship that requires you to repeatedly prove yourself,
Essentially, they no longer consider you a core variable.
Just like the price, once you start to fixate, question, and fear losing it,
You are already standing in the position to be harvested.
She finally understood later.
It’s not that she is not good enough, but she is using a loss mentality to talk about relationships.
A good relationship will not force you to send a whole set of self-deprecating messages.
Just like a good trade, it won’t make you lose your dignity.
If you stay long enough in the crypto world, you must have seen this ending.
It’s also possible that you are the unnamed person in the story.
