💕It's not scary when others deceive you; the scariest thing is deceiving yourself💘

Insight: It's not scary when others deceive you; it’s possible that from this deception, you gain experience and it becomes easier to succeed.

The scariest thing is deceiving yourself because the consequences of self-deception are always failure.

What behaviors constitute self-deception? For example, you open your phone for points in a retraining session but don’t pay attention to the class; to complete an assignment, you copy and paste someone else's content; some people don’t think for themselves and immediately ask others for answers or methods when faced with any problem.

The correct way to consult should be to first think for yourself and find an answer, and then consult others or your teacher, comparing the answers given by others with the answers you found yourself, to see if they match and to identify where you went wrong. This kind of consultation is the correct way to consult and leads to the fastest growth.

So many people learn while deceiving themselves, pretending to work hard, pretending to consult, but never really thinking, often having ideas of taking shortcuts. This behavior of self-deception will definitely lead to failure; when others deceive you, you may gain experience, but self-deception will definitely lead to failure#BNB创新高