Three years ago at the wedding, I was tying my bow tie in the groomsmen's room, surrounded by noisy people, the atmosphere hot like a freshly launched mainstream coin.
Just as I fastened the last button, someone half-jokingly threw out, "At thirty, still relying on parents for the betrothal gifts? Is this what independence looks like?"
That remark wasn't heavy, yet it pierced like a cold needle, not breaking the skin but making my heart ache faintly.
The room was filled with laughter, and I was the only one who froze for a few seconds, pretending to adjust my tie while feeling like I was suddenly pierced through.
Back then, I was naive, thinking that as long as I caught the rhythm once in the circle,
once would be enough to make up for the gaps of the past few years.
Enough for me to hold my head high at home and enough for me to no longer feel guilty in front of others.
But reality told me:
Relying on emotions to enter the market only leads to falling faster than others.
That year, I had less than 10,000 U in my account but wanted to take a million-level route.
Watching others get rich overnight made my mentality more restless than the market:
——If someone hits the boards, I chase.
——If someone calls the bottom, I add.
——When others flaunt their profits, I feel guilty.
Every day, it felt like I was being led by the market, the more anxious I got, the more chaotic it became, and the more chaotic, the more I lost.
The market didn't defeat me; I defeated myself first.
Until one night, I stared at my account stained red by unrealized losses and suddenly realized:
What truly weighed on me was never the small amount of capital,
but the invisible pressure behind that joke—
wanting to prove myself while not even standing firm on the basic rhythm.
At that moment, I placed my phone down on the table and told myself:
"If you want to turn things around, it's not about rushing, but about being steady."
I began to readjust my strategy:
——No longer chasing hotspots recklessly.
——Not losing control over a few long shadows.
——Not panicking because of others' increased positions.
I only did one thing: treated every entry as walking a tightrope, seeking steady profits.
Are you willing to be a vegetable for a lifetime? Or do you want to become the winner who laughs last?
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