《When Did You Suddenly Understand Your Parents?》

Some things weigh on the heart like a stone for a long time, but at a certain moment, you suddenly let go.

I used to not understand why my parents' love always seemed wrapped in blame, why their words could be so stubborn at times. I also didn't understand why they always thought "not getting married or having children is selfish."

Until later, I saw them arguing with their own parents, just like I argue with them. They wanted to take my grandparents out to have fun, but the elderly refused and even got angry.

They thought the elderly were "ungrateful," but in reality, my grandparents were just afraid of becoming a burden to their children and were worried about spending money.

A couple of days ago, I tried to talk from their perspective, and suddenly everything made sense.

It turns out we don't not love each other; we are just living in different eras. My grandparents experienced times when it was hard to make ends meet, my parents grew up in a time of just starting development, and we live in today's fast-paced information age.

We all used "languages" that the other party completely could not understand to express love. As a result, the more we talked, the more tired we became, and the more we loved, the more lonely we felt. In fact, we are all the same, clumsily loving each other in ways that each other does not understand. $ZEC $LUNA #美联储降息 #加密市场反弹 #美联储FOMC会议