How to Effectively Become Handsome! Let's talk about how to become the 'handsome guy' in everyone's eyes.

1. Fitness

Fitness is not just about sweating; effective exercise can significantly improve issues like a big belly, pelvic tilt, forward head posture, and rounded shoulders. Prioritize strength training, focusing on the back, chest, shoulders, and legs! This can lead to noticeable changes in posture. Add a bit of aerobic exercise; brisk walking or hiking for 30 minutes is sufficient.

2. Diet

During this fitness period, you must control your diet. You can't just binge eat because you're working out. Eat less fried foods and hamburgers, and reduce your intake of beverages, especially sugary drinks. You never know how much sugar is in them! Eat more high-quality proteins: chicken, beef, fish, etc., along with good carbohydrates and healthy fats. These are good foods that keep your body in shape long-term.

3. Skincare Products

This is something most guys overlook. Using skincare products correctly can really boost your appearance. You should use facial cleansers, toners, lotions, and eye creams daily. Always apply sunscreen when going out during the day! This is something a female skincare teacher taught me; it's not just girls who need sunscreen, guys need it too! If you are often exposed to the sun, your skin will age and become dull. As the saying goes, 'a little whiteness can cover three flaws.' You don’t want to be called 'uncle' at just over 20, right?

4. Spend some time researching hairstyles and outfits

Finding the right hairstyle and outfit will give you more points in the eyes of girls. Don’t show up with a greasy hairdo and casual clothes; that will only make you seem slovenly and unrefined. You don’t need to chase trendy clothes; being clean, neat, and comfortable already puts you ahead of 80% of people. Girls like to see someone who looks clean and sunny. Even if you’re short, just wearing clean clothes is a plus.

Also, don’t be a simp, don’t be a simp, don’t be a simp—important things should be said three times. This behavior is very devaluing. Instead of projecting your mainstream attention onto others, focus it on yourself. Buy that outfit you’ve been reluctant to purchase, treat yourself to a nice meal, invest in your personal growth and daily life.

A man's handsomeness is not about looking good; it’s about knowing what you want to do at this stage and being clear about your direction. That is true handsomeness, not the 'self-perceived handsomeness.'