In the second of liquidation, I was stunned.
It's not anger, it's not resentment, nor is it grievance,
but a long-lost... silence.
It's like someone suddenly turned off the sound of the world,
leaving only that string of red words on the screen:
“The position has been forcibly liquidated.”
In that moment, I suddenly understood—
Liquidation has never been a problem of the market.
It was I who piled all the problems together and sent them up for the market to solve.
01. I finally admit: it wasn't the market that killed me, it was myself who brought about my own demise
In the past, whenever I lost money, I would blame the market:
“The main force is too sinister”
"Platform lag prevented me from stopping losses"
"Who knew there would suddenly be a spike"
…
But this time I suddenly didn't know who to blame.
Because I replayed the entire process,
Like judging myself:
Going hard when the direction is uncertain;
Stop-loss set but manually removed;
Seeing a rebound and adding positions;
Hesitating to run when making a profit;
I didn't dare to cut losses...
To put it bluntly:
That is not trading, that is gambling with your life.
The market just settled the price I had to pay all at once.
It didn't even make things difficult for me,
I had already lost in advance.
02. Most people's liquidations are not 'accidents', but 'inevitabilities'
What you think is an accident has long been buried.
The first time I didn't set a stop-loss, it didn't touch you;
The second time when fully invested, it didn't take you;
The third time when going against the trend, it also didn't care about you.
You think you are hiding,
But in fact, the market is preparing your bill.
The last time, even the smallest fluctuation is enough to break you.
That feeling is like:
It wasn't a sudden explosion,
It was all the small mistakes adding up, finally qualifying for an explosion.
The truth is cruel, but always real:
Liquidation is not the market's malice, but an inevitability after accumulation.
03. That day I suddenly stopped blaming the market
I used to think liquidation was a disaster,
That day I felt for the first time:
Liquidation is more like a graduation certificate.
You have paid enough tuition,
It allows you to upgrade;
You still want to continue gambling,
It makes you start over.
That day I sat in front of the computer,
Suddenly I understood many things:
The market has no obligation to be gentle,
The market has no obligation to take care of you,
The main force has no obligation to let you make money.
The only thing we can rely on has never been the market,
but rather:
Position
Stop-loss
Rhythm
System
Mindset
Discipline
These things that seem 'dry and cliché',
Are often only truly understood on the day you face liquidation.
04. After liquidation, the first thing I learned: no longer escaping my mistakes
You can never avoid the next liquidation by escaping.
The hardest lesson the market taught me is:
Losses are not scary, what is scary is not being educated by losses.
After that day, I began to do one thing:
Every trade must write the reasons, record emotions, and review logic.
Slowly I realized—
I wasn't incapable of trading before,
It's that my 'bad habits' are much stronger than my skills:
I will hesitate, be greedy, be afraid, gamble, endure, escape, and rely on luck...
Human nature is working against you every day,
Liquidation is just its final success.
I only realized this after that day:
Trading is not about defeating the market, it's about defeating oneself.
05. Liquidation is not the end, but a watershed
All the people who make money have something in common:
They have truly experienced a liquidation and woke up.
All those who can't make money also have something in common:
They have exploded countless times but never wake up.
Liquidation is not shameful,
The shame is—
After the explosion, still blaming the market,
Still wanting to rely on luck to break even,
Still unwilling to establish a system,
Still unwilling to face myself.
After that day, I began to understand:
Liquidation does not make me exit the market,
But makes me stay in a different way.
06. If you are also experiencing losses, I want to tell you an extremely true statement
It's not the market targeting you,
It's not the market punishing you,
It's not the main force working against you.
What you lack is not luck, but rules;
What you lost is not money, but discipline.
True turnaround never relies on overnight wealth,
But starts from your willingness to face the reasons for the first liquidation.
That day I suddenly stopped blaming the market,
Because I finally saw clearly—
Liquidation is not the market being cruel to you,
It's pushing you to become a better version of yourself.#比特币VS代币化黄金 #美SEC推动加密创新监管 #美联储重启降息步伐 $BTC $ETH $BNB
